Thursday, August 5, 2010

WOMAN; THE FOOLISHNESS OF GOD…!

                                                                                                                                     


GOD’S NATURE AND POWER REVEALED IN THE FEMALE 1. 
1 Cor 1:25 KJV 
25 “Because the foolishness of God is wiser than men;..”

HOW YOUR SEXUALITY AS A FEMALE IS 
DESIGNED TO REVEAL DIVINE SEXUALITY

God is not foolish, to men God’s wisdom looks foolish, Christ dieing on the cross looks foolish, how can God allow his creatures do that to him. The world says seeing is believing, they say the way to gain more is to keep getting, God says believing is seeing and that the way to gain more is give more. God’s wisdom is designed to confound men. 

In your relationship with men, many of the things you will be required to do may look foolish but I assure you that is exactly what helps you overcome the wisdom of Satan and the carnal wisdom of men. Just make sure everything is done not out of selfish and blind desire but in understanding of God’s will. Experience the rare privilege of overcoming the wisdom and strength of men God style after all you were created to be like him and get things done His way.


Someone told me before he got born again he used to drink and keep late nights. Just to prove to his friends who were taunting him that now that he is married he is now under the woman’s rule. He deliberately continued to keep late nights hoping the woman will try to stop him so he can deal appropriately with her to show who was in control.

Instead of fighting him each time he got home she just serves him and took care of him. She removed his clothes and cleaned him up tucking him into his bed. According to him she was acting like my very own mother to the foolish things I was doing. 

Ultimately he started calling her mummy. The funny thing was the lady was 19 and he was 29 when they got married. Besides that his friends and elders brothers started calling their own wives mummy following his footsteps. All because of a teenager who knew how to overcome the strength and wisdom of men by the goodness and wisdom of God. 25 years into the marriage he stills calls her mummy. Ultimately he got tired messing around got converted to Christ. Most women would have resorted to counter attacking such actions from the men often drawing out the defiance and combat spirit in him.

Another man told confessed that there was a time in his marriage he started misbehaving and keeping late nights. Each time he came home the wife will be waiting welcoming him with his food ready. He said “my conscience will not allow me to rest, it was my wife that saved me I would have been lost if it where not for her patience.”

Submission may look foolish but in the end you will win your man’s heart and you will be the mightiest influences on his choices.

Submission may look foolish but in the end you will win your man’s heart and you will be the mightiest influences on his choices. You end up controlling him. The narrative of the fall reveals that though man is given position and authority in male-female relationships, the woman is given the supremacy of influence in male female relationships, meaning the woman is designed influences the exercise of that positional and authority.

The woman was not given position and authority though we are equal. She is not going to get things done and fulfill her purpose and role by trying to fight the situation. In the same way who Jesus was much higher was not given authority as government when He was on earth and He submitted to earthly rulers even when He was unjustly treated.

It doesn’t make Him less than who He is by submitting, it actually enabled Him unleash the forces that helped Him play is part and fulfill His destiny in God’s plan.

A woman’s power is her influence what she can’t get done by discovering, developing and unleashing the power of her influence  she can’t get it done any other way. A man can get things done by the sheer force of his physical strength, position, authority etc.


The bibles says that the men may be won by the conduct of the woman as they behold your chaste conduct.

The kind of challenges that comes up in your relationship with the man and the kind of influence God needs you to have to resolve it does not answer to the strength used in conflicts.

God's goal for you is not to win the argument or your right, rather it is to win and assume the place God’s created you to have on the man; his greatest influencer; to win his heart not just stimulate his mind.
The goal is to win the relationship and conform it to God's will by you playing your role.

One day I learn an important lesson about submission and strife. My Dad took a decision that was wrong. In a most respectful way I told him what I thought and insisted on it. He was furious, he felt I was challenging him. I felt bad as I went to my room and told God that I didn’t want to offend my Dad.


As I mediated on the incident, for the first time the word “strife” came into my heart with amazing revelation. The Holy Spirit made me understand that strife is when we insist as against another on anything and it only allows the enemy to operate using our flesh. See
James 3:16 KJV
16 For where ….strife is, there is confusion and every evil work.

Only God can help the other see the truth not what we argue about. Strife prevents that; submission creates atmosphere for God to reveal the truth. It doesn’t mean you don’t speak your mind but you understand  the power of God rather than yours to drive home the point.
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