WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF THE WOMAN 2 ? From the manuscript the mysteries of the woman! by Segun Meleki All Rights Reserved ©

                                                                                                                                             

WHY DO WOMEN DO THAT?

I started asking questions from the girls; I remember a young girl told me “we ladies are not wise that’s why we keep getting deceived” another told me, “we don’t like to face the truth we know, we prefer not to deal with reality, so far the guy keeps up the game” I don’t believe women are not wise, I met a lot of smart ladies smarter than the guys messing around with them. 

Matter of fact the two highest IQ's (intelligence quotient) ever recorded (on a standard test) both belong to women. Just that when it comes to this relationship thing most just act in a way I consider dumb.

WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF THE WOMAN 1?

                                                                                                                                                       

From the manuscript the mysteries of the woman! by Segun Meleki All Rights Reserved ©
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A woman is a mystery and “Only where revelation is known has woman her due place of honor assigned to her”.—Easton's Illustrated Dictionary.

Like most young men, I discovered womanhood or so I thought at a young age, it was a discovery that only reinforced men’s tendency to view and use the woman as a mere tool of amusement and nothing more. I lived in suburban area of my city that was just developing where everybody kept indoors so I really knew nothing significant about the woman until I went to spend holiday with some relative in a densely populated low income area of my city.

It was a shocking difference. It was a heavily populated neighborhood that never seemed to sleep. You saw young gals and guy just hanging out strolling. It seemed the only thing young guys did was chase the girls.


One day, one of my older relatives dared me to run after a girl who was strolling by and toast her meaning try to catch her as my gal. So I went after her to show that I was a man and equal to the task. I never realized then, I was being initiated to the world of men’s relationship with the woman where men chase women for sport. It was an unconscious thing but one thing was clear to show you are a man you have to win a girl.

So I went after her as I strolled briskly to catch up with her, calling her for quite a while with no response, I drew closer and she turned suddenly to face me. For the first time I realized I was confronted with a prey for which I had not developed hunting skills; I experienced heart failure coupled with mind blackout, I was intimidated, I didn’t know what to say I started sweating, I never been in this situation before; never toasted a girl before, what was a guy supposed to say?

“I, em … I am … my brother asked me to call you” was all I could manage to say. Trying to back out of the challenge as honorably as I could quickly imagine.

She looked intently at me and said “tell him I can’t come”

I can’t remember other details but I was glad to end the chase and move away from that embarrassing quest. When I got back to the house everybody was waiting for the report all smiling. “What happened?’

"Can't We Talk?" (condensed from: You Just Don't Understand) by Deborah Tannen

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A married couple was in a car when the wife turned to her husband and asked, "Would you like to stop for a coffee?"

"No, thanks," he answered truthfully. So they didn't stop.

The result? The wife, who had indeed wanted to stop, became annoyed because she felt her preference had not been considered. The husband, seeing his wife was angry, became frustrated. Why didn't she just say what she wanted?

Unfortunately, he failed to see that his wife was asking the question not to get an instant decision, but to begin a negotiation. And the woman didn't realize that when her husband said no, he was just expressing his preference, not making a ruling. When a man and woman interpret the same interchange in such conflicting ways, it's no wonder they can find themselves leveling angry charges of selfishness and obstinacy at each other.

THE CALL OF THE WOMAN 1

                                                                                                                                                                   

God’s Mystery and Power Revealed in the Female

The woman in her primary call and design reflects the role and manner the Holy Spirit plays in the life of a Christian. The bible uses so many words describing the Holy Spirit to describe the woman.

There is something about the inspired sexuality of the woman that is designed to reveal and unleash something about how God relates with men, deal with issues in relationships and develops relationships.

Rom 1:20 KJV

20 For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead;”

In being a woman, and an effective one, the woman has very little to teach her about womanhood, most time they try to fit into man's and societal definition of womanhood.You need to come to terms with your divine sexuality and let that be your guiding light in expressing yourself as a woman.

Thus the woman is given some of the functional qualities of the Holy Spirit (designed to mirror that of the Holy Spirits relationship with the believer) in her relationship with man. Unfortunately these qualities are being lost in women's relationship with the men. The woman bears the same name, ministry, nature and qualities the Holy Spirit bears in His personal relationship with Christians; Help, companion, good thing, comforter, life-giver, teacher, counselor, tender, gentle meekness etc. We will look at these uniques similarities later in "The call of the woman series"

To know your role and how you were designed to carry it out as woman take a look at the ministry of the Holy Spirit in the life of a believer. Your true purpose goes beyond the natural uses man's ignorance of your divine purpose informs him of and which you are tempted to conform to.

PECULIARITY OF YOUR SEX 3

                                                                                                                                                    

Sanctified Sexuality of the woman.

One of the errors mankind lives by is trying to handle a mystery with human logic.  God’s purpose in creating the woman is a mystery, the concept of the male and female by which God defines mankind and Himself is a mystery in that it connects to the very nature of God and his image expressed in us.

The Divine Nature of the Woman.

The essence of a woman is first spiritual and in this spiritual essence lay her mystery, power and influence. Her beauty and power the bible says is in the inner man. Her humanity helps her relate to the man but it is her divine calling and pedigree that enables her deal with and respond in a transforming way to the man and so develop inspired relationships with men

God was the first to introduce the concept of sex type as in male and female in describing and analyzing mankind linking our sexuality to His very nature. More than physiological differences apparent to us, or our attempts at socio- demographical classification. God seeks to reveal and express the dimensions of His own divine nature through our divine or sanctified sexuality one gender to one another. God is male and female, every word that describes God is a mystery even though it is expressed in creation.