Spiritual Peculiarities.
How your sexuality was meant to mirror and reveal Divine sexuality
How do you best express your femaleness? Most women tend to imagine that expression of femaleness starts and ends with being. Sexy, fashionable, and (classy). Well these are part of the how God creates a woman to express herself but really these cannot help achieve the primary purpose for which she was designed. It is grossly inadequate.
One of the reasons most women find it difficult to initiate inspired relationships with men is because they lack understanding of their sanctified sexuality. Yet it is only with such understanding do they realize the power, influence, beauty, purpose and reason for relating with the man. In the absence of which their relationships or lack of one with men is limited by that which their emotions and feelings dictate.
One of the wrong questions I have been asked by women is what do I, or what does a man want from a woman? I have always told those who ask such questions that the question will not give them the answer they need in their quest for fulfilling and inspired relationship with the man. The mysteries of the flesh, sin, the woman, human desires, make that question incapable of supplying the right answer. First there is difference between needing something and wanting or desiring something. Human desires are always changing and are never satisfied
Ecclesiastes 1:8 KJV
“…the eye is not satisfied with seeing , nor the ear filled with hearing…”
Like Solomon found out having sampled every kind of woman he desired, the key to fulfillment is not in going after or getting what we want or desire but in knowing what we need and living for the purpose that creates those needs. The key to fulfilled desires is purpose and the pursuit of purpose.
Solomon who by the way should know better, having sampled over 1000 women hinted that one among a thousand women he really was hard pressed to find the difference. That’s why he kept researching the female specimen. To the natural man it all adds up to this, the knowledge revealed by his natural use and engagement with the woman rarely changes from what he has already known. They are different roads leading to the same destination i.e. for a carnal man who only has a natural use for the woman and for a woman who has no understanding of the call of a woman.
Eccl 7:27-29
27 “Behold, this have I found, saith the preacher, counting one by one, to find out the account:
28 Which yet my soul seeketh, but I find not: one man among a thousand have I found; but a woman among all those have I not found.”
When you are not who God made you to be, no matter what you try to become, beautiful, sexy, fashionable, whatever for the man, it simply puts you in league with others. Limiting the expression of your womanhood to trying to be beautiful, sexy, fashionable without understanding divine concept and expression of womanhood only leaves you in the long line of pretty, sexy faces.
29 Lo, this only have I found, that God hath made man upright; but they have sought out many inventions.
KJV.
For Solomon as well as for most men, women are simply different ways of arriving at the same destination somehow they are tempted to keep trying. It’s like trying to eat the same kind of food using different dishes it don’t change the taste does it? The glory of the flesh is the same. The one addicted to drugs, and the one addicted to pornography are labouring under the same principle and error of the flesh. Addiction is perverted purpose or lack of one.
If you don’t apply God’s purpose in the use of a thing the flesh supplies you one. Promising to get you what your soul needs through what you flesh wants. Like trying to use ice cream to replace your bodies need for sleep. Insanity isn’t it? It doesn’t add up. For everyman in his lust for natural rather than inspired relationship with different women, the conclusion is, hey I’ve been here before.
Prov 27:20
Hell and destruction are never full; so the eyes of man are never satisfied.
KJV
The woman and her place in relationship to the man is a mystery to the man and the woman herself is the key to revealing this mystery- her mystery. Thus the challenge for the woman is to reveal and communicate a higher knowledge of who she really is and her call in relationship to the man than the knowledge which the man’s senses and the natural uses of the woman readily communicate to the man.
This is done by having an inspired perspective in her relationship with the man, a new sense of purpose in relationship with him, a conscious understanding of her being, her weapons and influence, and a deliberateness and sense of mission in her relationship with men. By doing this she is able to shape the mans relationship with her, and discern who she is designed to be in relationship with by measuring the fruit of her relationship with the man. By doing these she is be positioned to be successful at being a woman in God’s plan rather than man’s whims.
When a woman lives by an inspired understanding of her divinely designed role and in her relationship with the man, she can create or experience a fulfilling relationship with the man.
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