Before a man comes to initiate relationship or propose to a woman, the woman has already won him by her essence and conduct rather than words. By the time the man comes to the woman, he is merely expressing in words what the woman has done by her conduct and essence. It’s a truth women are vaguely aware of both don’t seem to fully grasp the power and purpose behind their God given power to influence the exercise of a man’s choice, power, authority and position in all things including the man’s relationship with the woman.
When woman are particular about their looks, dress etc they are unconsciously trying to exercise their God given power to influence the man thoughts, choice and relationship with them.
I remember asking a seven year old girl why she avoids eating certain kinds of foods she said “so that when I grow up I will have a good shape ,so l will get a man to marry me. That broke my heart because that statement was a mixture of truth and lie. 1st it reveals the truth that a woman has an important role to play in wining the man, secondly it obscures the truth about her God designed her to do it, limiting it to her looks. But that is another mystery I wrote something about that in my blog “the mystery of beauty” so I wont go into that now.
Unfortunately, women don’t seem to understand that the actual power of a woman to influence the man relationship with them goes deeper than trying to stimulate physical attraction, it actually lies in understanding the purpose of the woman in the male –female relationship as intended by God lining up with it, and being deliberate and inspired in her relationship with the man.
“Conduct in this sense does not mean actions calculated or targeted to bring men into relationship you in line with your preconceived desire, it is actually conducts inspired to influence men in line with God’s purpose for the man. It is helping the man become who God’s wants him to be and helping do what God will have him do.
1st Cor 11:9
“The woman was created for the benefit of the man and not the man for the benefit of the woman”
Until a woman is liberated from the manifestations of those actions which are designed to fulfill her desire for relationship with the man and comes into the inspired manifestation of those actions that reveal God’s purpose for making her the one most suitable to helping the man be who God made him to be, only then does she reveals her true beauty and power and influence as a woman.
A woman must distinguish between actions that are calculated to merely try to get a man to love her which is an act steeped in self and those actions that are driven by a sense of high calling and purpose. As a woman you have a higher calling. It is in this calling do you release the kind of influence and experience the functional and fulfilling relationships God designed you for.
“Basically a woman needs to the delivered from a desire driven relationship with the man as imposed on her by the realities of the fall, to a purpose driven relationship revealed in the deep understanding of God’s original purpose in creating the woman “for the man” in her interaction with the men. In this lies her power to attract and influence the kind of relationship and men God needs and designed her to bring into inspired rather than desperate relationship with herself”.
God gives us the seed and makes us the seed for every relationship He designed to us to develop, recognizing the seed and becoming the seed and understanding how God wants the seed invested to develop purpose driven relationship is the key to developing every relationship God designed and so empowers you to develop as a woman. Emotionally, spiritually, maritally etc.”
You may not be a wife to every man, or a girlfriend to every man, but you can be God’s the revelation of womanhood to everyman God brings around you.
Your primary call as a woman is to the man
1 Corinthians 11:9 NIV
9 neither was man created for woman, but woman for man.”
Another translations actually says the woman was created for the “benefit of the man” according to God’s purpose.
Womanhood is a calling and a calling to the man!
Understanding the nature and dimensions of this call as well as the means she is given by God to carry out these call is key to bringing men into relationship with herself.
As spiritual beings we are all created for God but as a woman you are designed primarily to achieve God’s purpose with regards to the man.
“One day God spoke to my heart He said “ a woman is a female who has undergone inspired processes and lives in a way that enables her to function in her relationship with men and influence men in the way God purposed
Not every female understands or has gone through the process. Much like a baby girl is a female and holds no sexual attraction, functional relationship to a man (except perverts). Because she has not undergone necessary physical processes and cannot reflect feminine essence that stimulates and influences the kind of relationship that God designed to exist between male and females at least physically.
Very few Christian women have undergone the processes or manifest the essence that is divinely inspired to help them stimulate and develop the kind of relationship God designed them to develop with the men God brings around them.”
Very few women have an understanding of what God means by a woman. In the absence which most are forced to line up with the masculine and society concept of what womanhood means. It has resulted in a marked reduction in power of the woman to develop and influence the kind of relationship God designed the woman to have with men.
It is only by living in the understanding of your call as a woman does a the woman help a man acknowledge what he needs to know about you and himself and your value and place in his life in his life, transforming his relationship with you. The Easton Bible dictionary reveals an important truth in defining the woman it says “only in the place of revelation does a woman have her true honor”
The woman must walk in the light of who God made her to be not just what the man expects of her like the multitudes would have the Lord. Only by the revelation of her identity, original purpose and calling is she is positioned to heal the man’s mind setting him free by her truth.
Women must acquire the knowledge and subject themselves to the discipline that enables them switch from their preconceived role to their preordained role in creation. From what the society expects her to be and what the man demands of her, to what God designed her for. Because the 1st 2nd limits her and hardly fulfills her, whilst the third liberates her and gives her meaning value and purpose.
Men really have no clue as to the purpose of the woman in their relationship with the woman. Adam never felt the need for a woman let alone ask God for one. Only God knew what He saw and why He decided Adam needed help and that in the shape of a woman.
After the fall men have invited their base understanding of the use of a woman which unfortunately most women are tempted to pander to.
“Yet the woman was created with s divine purpose in her relationship with the man. It is only by understanding, this purpose and living in its by being deliberate and purpose driven in her relationship with the man does the woman develop the kind of relationship and influence God empowers and designs her to have with the man bringing the man to the kind of revelations that shapes his relationship with the woman.”
It is the woman that has the calling and burden of revealing the truths and exerting the kind of influence that are necessary in shaping the man’s relationship with her.
I have met a lot of wonderful Christian ladies and ministers who really have know clue about the call of a woman and so are successful in their relationship with men even though they are gifted and successful ministers.
It is not enough to be a successful gospel minister, career woman if you don’t, discern, train for, and become what God means when He made the woman, there is a gap in creation which your lack of form as a woman, or your success in career, or indeed any vocation or calling cannot replace.
Loneliness is caused by lack of purpose, once we all understand our purpose as men and women we will understand that our calling is to relationships of various shapes and services that empathizes our true essence.
Inspired Womanhood is not a passive thing it is active and activated by inspired purpose, abilities and calling...
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