Spiritual Peculiarities.
How your sexuality was meant to mirror and reveal Divine sexuality
How do you best express your femaleness? Most women tend to imagine that expression of femaleness starts and ends with being. Sexy, fashionable, and (classy). Well these are part of the how God creates a woman to express herself but really these cannot help achieve the primary purpose for which she was designed. It is grossly inadequate.
One of the reasons most women find it difficult to initiate inspired relationships with men is because they lack understanding of their sanctified sexuality. Yet it is only with such understanding do they realize the power, influence, beauty, purpose and reason for relating with the man. In the absence of which their relationships or lack of one with men is limited by that which their emotions and feelings dictate.
One of the wrong questions I have been asked by women is what do I, or what does a man want from a woman? I have always told those who ask such questions that the question will not give them the answer they need in their quest for fulfilling and inspired relationship with the man. The mysteries of the flesh, sin, the woman, human desires, make that question incapable of supplying the right answer. First there is difference between needing something and wanting or desiring something. Human desires are always changing and are never satisfied
Ecclesiastes 1:8 KJV
“…the eye is not satisfied with seeing , nor the ear filled with hearing…”
Like Solomon found out having sampled every kind of woman he desired, the key to fulfillment is not in going after or getting what we want or desire but in knowing what we need and living for the purpose that creates those needs. The key to fulfilled desires is purpose and the pursuit of purpose.
Solomon who by the way should know better, having sampled over 1000 women hinted that one among a thousand women he really was hard pressed to find the difference. That’s why he kept researching the female specimen. To the natural man it all adds up to this, the knowledge revealed by his natural use and engagement with the woman rarely changes from what he has already known. They are different roads leading to the same destination i.e. for a carnal man who only has a natural use for the woman and for a woman who has no understanding of the call of a woman.
Eccl 7:27-29
27 “Behold, this have I found, saith the preacher, counting one by one, to find out the account:
28 Which yet my soul seeketh, but I find not: one man among a thousand have I found; but a woman among all those have I not found.”
